Save the Last Dance: Forever Young Prom

MICHAEL RIETMULDER | Updated 5/29/2013

Forever Young Prom hits First Avenue — one more time.


Photo provided by Forever Young

Thirty years after Prince urged us to party like it was 1999, Matthew Jacobs and Chris Cloud are doing the same. But where the Purple One’s 1982 hit was a prescient party anthem, Jacobs and Cloud are looking backward.

In 2011, the thirtysomethings launched Forever Young — a monthly dance night at the James Ballentine VFW Post in Uptown, aimed at evoking ’90s high school house parties.

“You are unbridled when you’re that age,” said Jacobs, nestled in a VFW booth. “I’m 33 years old. I don’t go to parties and act like I was when I was [younger].”

“But people do at Forever Young,” his dreadlocked partner interjected.

Their throwback bashes have become favorites for dancing-deprived Uptowners, despite (or perhaps because of) their unlikely digs. The Lyn-Lake dive bar long has been a melting pot for hipsters, bros and old-timers, but VFWs are better known for bingo and karaoke than booty-grinding dance parties.

Jacobs and Cloud fathered Forever Young in the lower-level event space after Jacobs drunkenly talked his way into a weekly DJ night — his Tuesday Night Music Club. “[At first] it was like, ‘Wow, people actually want to come to a party at the VFW in the basement,’ ” recalled Cloud, a Mpls.TV co-founder. “All right then.”

After a year and a half of nostalgic soirees with themes that ranged from school dance to slumber party, the two kickball buds are pulling the plug on Forever Young as a monthly dance night. But the co-captains of revelry are going out with a bang, throwing their second adult prom at First Ave on Friday. Last year’s prom drew about 800 to the Mainroom, they said. The event is an opportunity to relive or redo this rite of passage with (legal) drinking and no finger-wagging chaperones.

Catering to millennials’ sentimental sides, Forever Young soundtracks are like “Total Request Live” box sets. Top 40 relics are culled from 1996 to 2006, including classic cuts from Britney, JT and Nelly. Jacobs and Cloud said these trips down memory lane invigorate people on the dance floor waiting to wild out to their favorite jam.

“People love the music they grew up with,” Jacobs said. “You don’t really fall in love with music the same way that you do when you’re younger.”

Cloud said he and Jacobs don’t always see eye to eye on all things Forever Young, with a planning committee often playing tiebreaker. But one thing they agree on is that no track goes over as well Ginuwine’s croaking, euphemistic hit “Pony.”

“It’s like the magic song, because no matter what you do wrong you just play ‘Pony’ and everybody’s OK,” Jacobs said. “It’s so weird.”

As their monthly parties conclude, the twosome are busy hatching other events under the Forever Young banner. Currently, they’re planning an installation at next month’s Northern Spark and thinking about a late-summer yacht party (presumably “Big Pimpin’ ” would be on repeat).

Cloud and Jacobs aren’t entirely singing “Bye Bye Bye” to the VFW and are not ruling out future fetes in its event space. One day we might even see an “American Wedding”-style reunion party there. Still, Cloud said he hopes people will one day reminisce about these, well, reminiscent dance parties.

Can we get a “Good Riddance [Time of Your Life]” montage?

Forever Young Prom

When: 9 p.m. Fri.

Where: First Avenue.

Tickets: $10-$12.